Every Dog Every Day

1. We ALREADY know how to live TOGETHER

 

All our households are different, all dogs come with a different package of DNA and our relationships are unique.

There is no such thing as simple and easy ways to train, just as there was never an idiot’s guide to rearing children.

Unless of course you want to rear idiots.

Can we learn online or from a book?

I do believe we all have innate skills of caring and rearing and it is often expert advice that seems to blind us to our own inherited knowledge. People and dogs have lived together for over 30,000 years, we have co-evolved and are continuing to do so. Dogs bred 200 years ago did not need to be friendly with strangers and in many cases quite the opposite was the purpose. But this has now become a desired trait and we have selected dogs as pets that carry this trait in varying degrees.

Our past history with dogs was very much based on utilising their hunting skills for our table which today is often a burden for the pet dog living an urban lifestyle. It has become a trend to select a dog for its appearance but it would be more advisable to select by inherited behaviour patterns. Some extremities may not be appealing to the eye, but the extremities of behaviour are a lot harder to live with than appearance.
We may choose a breed because of their perceived status, such as the working collie, cocker spaniel or labrador, but we actually buy the whole package. We cannot just choose their wonderful, intelligent abilities and working outlook without the need to control movement or hunt for birds.

It is common to view potential dog- friends with tinted spectacles where as the very thing that attracts you to them is the same thing that makes their sharing companionship vary from hard to almost impossible. Breeds come and go in fashions and trends. Winning Crufts or the latest block buster movies featuring a particular breed has never been good news for the breed as a whole.

Diagram of living togehter with dogs and the different areas we connect
I have shared my life with many dogs, counting towards 300 years of amiable house sharing. I am now of an age where I default to the term “over 40 years experience” which seems to be watershed where we are considered to have enough knowledge. The 10,000 hours that marks the point after which we should know what we are doing. That is 10,000 people who can now walk a dog on a lead and 100,000 piles of poo collected.

Childhood was not particularly doggie. A single pet household from German Shepherds, who did an excellent job of protecting us from other children, through to Toy Poodles.

My first partner was a Cavalier, Dickon, and he began a lifetime of service to the species, enabling people to increase their understanding of dogs and enjoy the special relationship that can be experienced with dogs.

Dogs living well together

Collies live well together, each finding their own space.

Over forty years of training people with dogs, over forty years of successfully competing in dog sports, over forty years of working dogs and over thirty litters of house reared puppies.

This practical experience combined with a desire to explore outside the box has matured into a veritable encyclopaedia of dog stuff. I am also quite good at it!

Now that I sit with my back leaning on this 40-year-ridge and look back over my gathered knowledge, experience and skills I have no doubt that dogs deserve every atom of effort, time and compromise that we can give them.

The debt is on our side and needs rebalancing.

I hope you will be able to add your coinage to the scales as well.

learning together

Dogs learn so much from each other

I have complete trust in dogs to try and find solutions, meet us over halfway and whatever you invest in your relationship will always come back wrapped in sunshine.

Dogs are superb learners and even better teachers when we give ourselves the time and space to listen to them.

The learning experience is part reading, some video and part experimenting, mixed with a lot of observing, healthy questioning and some evidence seeking. The learning is about gaining depth to your understanding, broadening your perceptions and enjoy time with your friends.

We cannot separate the different life stages of dogs and provide pertinent quick-fix solutions. How you rear your puppy depends on the future direction of that puppy. How you integrate a second hand adult dog into your life depends on their history and your lifestyle. I feel insulted when a simple recipe describes how to achieve no- pulling lead walking, it insults the complexity of the dynamics involved and dismisses the variation and individuality in the relationship.

In my long history of teaching people teaching dogs I have always respected that every person has a desire to understand and is not just seeking a quick fix. Only on one occasion has a client found their solution and asked to be excused from the rest of the course. No one has said “don’t bother with all the guff, just tell me what I must do to fix the dog”. The downside to enabling a person’s seeker circuit (desire to learn, explore and discover) is that it can become a little addictive. It is certainly highly reinforcing and the more we dis- cover about dogs the more we want to explore over the next ridge. Smashing!

Learning about dogs is more than the name of my business it has become a lifestyle, passion and motivator.

The project, should you choose to undertake it, will take you along a path that will not just introduce new landscapes but see the existing view, through new eyes. You will build your youngster’s ability to live with companionable ease in our very confusing world. Increasing their contentment is innately reinforcing for us and more importantly the journey will build a close and unique relationship with each and every dog that walks the path with you.

The competitive sports in the Olympic Games are based on “honing the skills required to live in that society”. That is exactly our project: honing Life Skills for your dog, teaching them to your youngsters.
You may choose a cover to cover approach, in which case you will have read this section and experienced a little flush of excitement and anticipation of the forthcoming learning.

If you were looking for that instant solution or prefer the dip-n-taste type of learning then you probably will have missed this warning and experience a little disappointment.

Ah well, there you are then.

Connection is begun with the puppy and matures through the life of the dog. Expect some disconnection during the teen months.

EVERY DOG EVERY DAY

10 Chapters in this book

Author

Kay Laurence

Kay has been involved in training dogs for over fifty years. From teaching lifeskills for all types of dogs to top level sports and working dogs.

Kay leads the way in developing innovative and creative techniques that deliver connection and effective teaching for both dogs and people in a blend of passion, joy and enthusiasm.

The constant thread has been a passion for learning about dogs and effective teaching.

10. Is Good Intention Enough?

We are all striving to make our dog’s lives a pleasant experience. If we are not paying close attention to the experience our puppy or dog is having we can inadvertently set them up for poor experiences. These experiences can be linked by the dog to circumstances that we never intended.

9. Primary School

Being a puppy is a busy, over-filled learning fest. Nature has designed them to excel at being inquisitive and curious.
If you do not feed that desire to learn, then the learning that happens may not be on your agenda: jumping at people, opening the waste bin, chasing the cat, chickens, skateboards, eating fox poo, unstuffing the sofa, biting off the top of the gear lever, shredding tampons all over the house.

8. Early Days Out and About

Familiarisation should ensure that a puppy has the time to assess, observe, and become familiar with, the weird and wonderful life that will be their future.

7. Lifestyle At Home

We breed a dog that lives and breathes to share their lives with people. Be nearby and visit often.

6. Teach and Train

They do not arrive knowing how to behave or live in our society, except as dogs.
They will need help to learn how to live alongside us without conflict. This is our responsibility.

5. Relationship and Connection

Connection is about being in tune with each other.
Dog is not the enemy.

4. But it is a Puppy

Puppies are designed to bring on a shot of pleasure-chemicals that override common sense and risk analysis in people. We behave without responsibility.

3. Dogs Can Only Behave Like Dogs

Be alert, and probably bark when something suspicious occurs.

2. Ethics

Take heed of your comfort bell. If the advice or a situation makes your comfort bell start to ring with alarm then walk away. Your bell should be listened to and although it may not ring loudly in the first instance, do not ignore it.

Every Dog Every Day Introduction

We should not be trying to change dogs but celebrating what they are and changing the world in which they live

10. Is Good Intention Enough?

We are all striving to make our dog’s lives a pleasant experience. If we are not paying close attention to the experience our puppy or dog is having we can inadvertently set them up for poor experiences.

These experiences can be linked by the dog to circumstances that we never intended.

9. Primary School

Being a puppy is a busy, over-filled learning fest. Nature has designed them to excel at being inquisitive and curious.
If you do not feed that desire to learn, then the learning that happens may not be on your agenda: jumping at people, opening the waste bin, chasing the cat, chickens, skateboards, eating fox poo, unstuffing the sofa, biting off the top of the gear lever, shredding tampons all over the house.

8. Early Days Out and About

Familiarisation should ensure that a puppy has the time to assess, observe, and become familiar with, the weird and wonderful life that will be their future.

7. Lifestyle At Home

We breed a dog that lives and breathes to share their lives with people. Be nearby and visit often.

6. Teach and Train

They do not arrive knowing how to behave or live in our society, except as dogs.
They will need help to learn how to live alongside us without conflict. This is our responsibility.

5. Relationship and Connection

Connection is about being in tune with each other.
Dog is not the enemy.

4. But it is a Puppy

Puppies are designed to bring on a shot of pleasure-chemicals that override common sense and risk analysis in people. We behave without responsibility.

3. Dogs Can Only Behave Like Dogs

Be alert, and probably bark when something suspicious occurs.

2. Ethics

Take heed of your comfort bell. If the advice or a situation makes your comfort bell start to ring with alarm then walk away. Your bell should be listened to and although it may not ring loudly in the first instance, do not ignore it.

Every Dog Every Day Introduction

We should not be trying to change dogs but celebrating what they are and changing the world in which they live

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